Interim relations are like smooth waters.The more you sail in, you start finding the waters rough. The strong winds make it even more difficult for you to stand strong. Your vessel may not stay stable..... in the same way as time lapses,relations give way to gaps. And these gaps give place to doubts about  stability.... TAKE YOUR TIME

The little space in the heart—
I am part of you.
Not an outsider, not a visitor—
But a quiet echo within the walls of your being.
That space… it began with warmth,
A soft corner carved out for connection, for comfort, for something real.

Interim relations are like smooth waters.
At first, everything flows—effortless, still, beautiful.
The surface reflects light,
And you think, “This is it. This is peace.”

But the deeper you sail in,
The more you begin to feel the current shift.
Winds pick up—questions, fears, unmet expectations—
And suddenly, that once-calming sea begins to stir.

The waves test you.
The vessel—the bond—you thought was steady
Begins to rock with the weight of time.
And if not cared for,
If not anchored with trust and communication,
It might drift... or worse, fracture.

Because as time lapses,
Even the strongest connections can start to form gaps—
Little spaces where silence replaces dialogue,
Where misunderstanding creeps in like water through cracks.

And these gaps…
They invite doubt—
Doubt about stability, about effort, about whether it was real to begin with.

But here’s the truth:
It’s not always about holding on tightly.
Sometimes it’s about holding on wisely.
Let the winds come, but strengthen your sails.
Let the water rise, but trust your anchor.

Take your time.
Love isn’t measured in how fast you reach the shore—
It’s in how patiently you navigate the storms,
And how willingly you return to that small space in the heart
Where it all began.
Where you and I are still learning how to be us.